Personal Stylist

Introducing: damn good shorts

It's Summer and we know that once that H E A T hits all we want is the ease of staying cool whilst looking fabulous of course :) You all know that Mama likes to keep it simple so I've gathered a few of my favorite styles to help you stay breezy this summer. 

When it comes to our bodies we all have some sort of negative self-talk that wants to chime in and make us feel that we don't deserve to wear certain things. For me, I went through a phase in my early tweens where I didn’t wear shorts. Growing up in Jamaica I went everywhere with the boys I hung out with. Climbed, slid under, jumped off shit. You know, play. So I have plenty of scars to prove it. I got over that phase because it was hotter than a mofo and I realized that I had to love on me more than anyone else.  We take on that negative story and hold it as TRUTH. The real truth is that when you learn what looks great on you all of that bullshit talk will start unravel. At your own pace, step by step, slowly removing the blinders of the "bad" that you see and revealing the PLENTY of good that exists.

I'm loving on these 3 styles:  These Zara high waisted pink ones are perfect for dressing up or down. They are not too fitted and offer a good drape especially if you have lovely curves. Oh and the price!! STEAL!  Denim shorts tend to all look the same ( insert yawn ;) so it's fun to mix it up a bit and that's exactly what these Madewell styles bring to your style game. They're high-waisted, not too short and comes in a great wash. These lovelies from Vince are a splurge but so worth it. I ordered for a client and she's worn them everywhere!  There are great options out there and you don't have to settle. Let me know if you snag any of these styles and happy Summer!!

Blazer: Rag and Bone   Shorts: Zara    ALL PHOTOS: Fiona Montagne Photography 

Add to cart: Stylish Sneakers

Feeling all the happy vibes in Lisbon, Portugal     Photography: Stephanie Mballo

It's a new day and that means that style is being represented in ways that are no longer tethered to a singular look. Women are defining and redefining how they show up. I see the evolution of fashion as it's own continued "burning bra" movement for women. Sneakers are no longer reserved for workouts and lengthy commutes (you know what I mean! The old switch out the uncomfortable shoe so that you can make it home commutes). Now there is a wonderful bevy of styles that can be rocked with denim, dress pants, skirts or dresses without compromising your style game. The cherry on top here is that you will also have happy feet!! Hallelujah! There’s nothing cute about being uncomfortable and hurting! 

In choosing sneaker styles, I like to stick with simple looks that have a bit of play. I'm rocking these Nike blazer premium low styles that have some personality in this rich red color. The low profile style ( this means it doesn't cover my ankles) provides versatility in outfit options. The result is a more streamlined look. Think outside the box with how you wear your sneakers. Classic brands such as Vans, Converse, and Addidas do a great job of providing new looks to what used to be clunky sneakers. I'm currently loving on this and this style. They look great on anyone and can be worn with many different looks. If you have a favorite brand that you're loving on let me know. Let's share the style love!

These clothes can't buy you love

all photography by Fiona Montagne 

I use to walk into a clothing store and had this overwhelming need to buy something. I've always loved fashion and for years I told myself that this insatiable urge was there to feed my passion. I thought that it was normal to constantly yearn for material things. I had a closet full of clothes and constantly wanted more. It wasn't enough. I eventually realized that my need for stuff was rooted in how I viewed my worth. Acquiring things or in my case shopping gave me temporary validation that I was enough. I had to acknowledge the bullshit I was feeding myself and it was not easy. When I launched my personal styling company www.lauratully.co almost three years ago it made me conscious of what I wanted to bring to the table for myself and the people I serve. I want style and fashion to be accessible, inclusive and serve as a vehicle for the bigger picture of what my clients are working to create. 

I decided to let go of the power I gave to material things and it made room for all of me to show up as is. All the good, bad and in between is worthy. It was a daily chat with myself that triggered the alarm that believing that you are enough will allow you to choose what brings you towards your best self. I edited my negative thoughts, let go of people who didn't serve the good I wanted to build and became intentional about the things I brought into my space. 

Now when I shop for myself and my clients it comes from a very happy place. It's filled with love, intention, and purpose. Like I said before, it's a process. It doesn't happen overnight. I had the chance to listen to life stories shared by men and women who were in their 90's. No one regrets not buying a pair of shoes ;) or wanting more stuff. What they shared was wanting more time to love, savior and enjoy the people who are in their lives. I've decided to choose people. The stuff that comes into my life will serve as a well-chosen addition to the big picture of whatever goodness I want to create. I hope you will do the same #worthy. 

Conversation: Be Yourself

“The moment you accept responsibility for EVERYTHING in your life is the moment you tap into your power to change ANYTHING in your life” Hal Elrod

I don't really know when it happens. That moment you get in good with who you are and stop the hater talk. For me it's a gradual process that unfolds when you start DOING stuff aka living your life. This means showing up for all the parts of life that comes your way, especially the really hard and challenging shit. I've learned the most about myself by diving into things that really scared me. It reveals these characteristics about who you are and piece by piece, through your experiences, you build a foundation that's all YOU. It's a on going, fo' life journey. Which I might add is pretty cool. You will always have the opportunity to learn something new about who you are and what you choose to become.

It's easy to get sucked into what you think everyone wants you to be. Your gesture of figuring out YOU can be a loud statement or a small whisper. Either way, do it on your own terms.  Stop trying to figure out who you are by standing still. Start walking, listening, trying and filtering shit that doesn’t fill whatever goodness you’re trying to create. Being yourself is showing up without the need to edit parts of who you are. You are creating this WHOLE you and that means leaning in to the ebbs and flows of this big beautiful, chaotic, purpose driven thing called life. It wants all of you. I want ALL of you. 

Photography:  Ellen B Hansen

Winter Wear: warm and stylish coats

Photography: karen E Photos

Stop trying to be a hero and put on a coat that'll keep you warm!! Ok seriously y'all, old man Winter will be here and I just want my babes to be stylishly ready. After experiencing snowmageddon 2016-2017, ughhhhh, I'm leaving no awesome/practical Winter wear stones unturned. This green puffy goodness was a saaweet find at Old Navy. It's under $50 on sale ( yah, you heard me) fleece lined, comes in this yummy color and its CUTE! We can nix looking frumpy in our cozy wears and step out looking fly! Insert any Beyonce song right here and imagine your hair being blown slow motion style in the wind ;)

Old Navy: Coat, vest and stripe tee 

So a few tips to consider when shopping for that coat. Proportions matter. If you're petite, consider a cropped puffer or see if the style comes in petite so that it doesn't overwhelm your frame. If you're curvy, look for a flat quilt ( no bulky coat), nylon or wool style that has a simple and sleek silhouette. I'm currently loving this and this style. Let me know if you snag any of these styles! Stay warm my peeps!

You Need This: Fall Jacket

Bathing in the sunshine in Astoria, Oregon. All photos by the amazing Stephanie Mballo Photography

Let's get right into it my peeps. We know that temperature dip is heading our way. I'm really going to miss Summer but don't you fret there's so much goodness coming your way for Fall and Winter. A jacket that helps me transition the slightly lower temperature is a must! This little number from Madewell certainly does the trick. You will see me in it a lot :) It's light enough to rock a tee but roomy enough to layer a sweater if you need to up the cozy factor. 

Side note: Thank you ALL for the awesome love from my last post! I appreciate each and every one of you! MUAH! See you soon my babes!

This facial expression was because Stephanie thought a car was coming and told me to get out of the way.  This babe has got my back :) We soon realized it was a car reflection in the store window. This trip was such a BLAST!! I'll go anywhere with you Stephanie!!! 

My Afro

All photos by the talented Weston McGhee Photography

Growing up I wanted long, straight hair that gently played on my back when the breeze touched it. My mom refused to let me straighten my curly mane. I would sneak and have by friend Niqua press my hair with a hot comb. If you don't know what that is, it's a comb made of metal that you put on a gas burning stove to heat up. You allow it to cool a bit and then you proceed to burn the shit out of your hair just so that it can be straight. I know. F@$king crazy! I did that because the idea of leaving my hair as is was something I did not see around me. I saw women pressing, perming, blowout styling their hair to look other than what it was naturally meant to be. This is certainly not a bash on those who straighten their hair. I assure you, if i want to mix it up a bit I'll blow out my hair  because I'm a grown woman and I can do what I want ;) Ok, I digress. When we press, straighten or do anything different to alter ourselves, I want it to be built on a road where we are defining our own beauty. 

The thought that black, natural, curly, kinky, unprocessed, left to do what it does best, froed out hair was not reflected to me as beautiful. It's changing. We are seeing a diverse mix of women stepping forward and demanding to be reflected in the images blasted towards us. Why? Because WE EXIST to be seen and heard. So much is happening with how we as women see ourselves. WE are digging deeper towards the AS IS part of ourselves that others thought strange or not enough and allowing it to be seen, fully. It's a real conversation that has to be echoed in a time where filters and editing skews so much of we see as beautiful. What I see now in myself took years of adjusting, filtering and being around women who know how to love themselves. These REAL reflections are what our little girls will witness, giving then the opportunity to SEE that their beauty is right there, as they are, right now. Strange, complicated, knappy hair, unruly, smart, loud, bossy, quiet, driven, defiant, necessary, vulnerable...beautiful AS IS.

Fueling Your Style With Confidence

"Show up in something that makes you feel damn good and bring your ALL-IN game!"  LT

Photography: the talented + kind Weston McGhee

When it comes to the process of getting dressed we all have the same intention. To feel great in what we wear. How do we get to that place of having styles in our closet that make us feel great? I'm not gonna bullshit you. It's a process and for some it's a simpler journey. For others, it can be laced with f-bomb dropped moments.  "I'm not tall, skinny, blond, tanned enough etc."  or "I wish my _____ was better."  It's a familiar moment to most of us. There is no magic to owning our confidence. It's a path that's tugged on by misguided social standards that are reverberated by those with good and bad intentions. Inadvertently, these tales become sprinkled through our own self talk making us believe that we are not enough. What does clothing and the process of getting dressed has to do with confidence? For me it's an acknowledgment of my body and how I feel about it and IN IT. The styles we choose will either celebrate our body or shame it. They will either uplift our sense of belonging or make us feel invisible. I want us to choose to see those parts that we love and then work to introduce styles that give those areas a whole lot of love! It doesn't happen overnight.  However, it can start with saying more kind words to ourselves and each other. Our culminated steps and the ability to recognize the me in you will lend to dismantle standards that are far from standard. 

I've got your back. 

dress: H+M

Summer Style: keeping your cool

Hanging amongst these pretties captured by the talented Stephanie Mballo Photography 

Yes, the temperature is rising and that means SUMMER is here in all it's glory! This Jamaican gal LOVES the heat! It hugs me and makes me feel like skipping and then twirling. However, Mama knows a girl can lose her cool when it's hotter than a mofo and all you want to do is strut your birthday suit. So I'm here to help guide you through rocking some cuteness whilst keeping your cool :) 

Tee: Everlane     Shorts: JCrew     

Keep it Simple

The hotter it gets the less I want to wear. So it's a balance between wearing as little as possible while maintaining our classy lady situation ;) That means keeping it simple. T-shirt and shorts are my go to for easy Summer styling. This doesn't mean that you can't add a little fun flavor. I'm rocking these darling green high waisted shorts that brings a dose of play with the ruffled details. Paired with a great staple that what we all have in our closet, a great white tee. 

Think...breezy

Your clothes can be a form of natural air condition....awwwww. This can be accomplished with fabrics: linen, cotton and fit: think airy. So I stick with styles that are not restricting any part of my body ( that's not cute anyways, right). All your nooks and crannies can breath ;) Light weight dresses, cotton shorts and drapey tanks are just a few of my breezy wears. 

Rejoice because it's Summer!

It goes by so fast so let's savior it as much as we can. I know it can get to the point where you want to rip off your clothes Superman style and dive into any cold liquid. However, I hold on to the patio evenings, pool parties, outdoor music and the best, just hanging with the people you love, a cold beverage in hand and late night chats. It's da best! 

Keep it simple, breezy and savior the little moments. Muah!

Modernism Week: seduced by color + design

In proper fun mode at the #mwsocialhouse by Kud Properties.

I know immediately what sparks a bit of joy inside me. It usually includes a well made high waisted trouser and of course a well designed space. I had the blessed opportunity to be along side Kirsten Grove and a few other uber cool ladies as part of the modsquad for Modernism Week in Palm Springs. The scoop is that it's cool, fun and introduced me to the variety of mid-century design. Your senses will thank you as you immerse yourself in the celebration of midcentury modern design, architecture, art, fashion and culture. Scroll below to get your dose of Palm Springs and I suggest grabbing a few of your good peeps and making a visit. 

Our stay at the Saguaro injected the vibrancy of what Palms Spring might have been in the 20's. There's about 12 colors that fill your visual senses and it's pure joy!

The loveliest brunch from the incredible team of We Are Secret Agents (hugs)

 

The Christopher Kennedy Compound is the spectacular home of Kelly Golightly and Fred Moser. Each room was custom designed by a designer and it was magical!! 

This wallpaper!!!! Designed by Sarah Sherman Samuel

The Door Tour made courtesy of some pretty sweet cruisers from Bike Palm Springs and Palm Spring Style. I mean come on!!!! This is the speed to truly take in not just the doors but all the beautiful nooks and crannies of these neighborhoods.  

For more details on Modernism week, click here and brace yourself for some seriously blissful play!

All photos by Local Wanderer

Why You Might Need Gold Pants

Beautiful blooming mustard leaves in San Juan Capistrano, Ca. All photos taken by the lovely and talented Tiffany of Tiffany J Photography

When I shop for my clients, it's a combination of finding styles that provide a refinement to their wardrobe and also incorporating extra special little pieces along the way.  Whether it's a fur trimmed classic trench or in my case some gold silk pants. It all adds an element of uniqueness that makes fashion what it should be. Your own expression.  Whatever your "gold pants"  heart desires, the point is to step out a bit and play.  Why? Ummm because it's just clothes. You're beautiful, deserving and why the hell not!  So if you desire that lace dress in lavender, the tuxedo inspired suit that vibes modern Katherine Hepburn or a simple silk blouse in a color that makes you feel extra saucy, I say #PURCHASE :) Don't overthink it. Mama will lay down some simple tips. It should fit you well ( lay well, hug you in the right places, no tugging/ pulling), make you feel great and when you look in the mirror, you should want to date yourself! Right!! Get out there and if you need some love on you guidance, you know where to find me. MUAH!

denim vest: JCrew  gold pants: Anthropologie

Credit note: blog cover photo taken by the amazing Jessica of Jlee Photos

Conversations With Spring

In a blissful field of blooming mustard leaves in San Juan Capistrano, Ca. All photos taken by the beautiful and talent filled Kate of Kate Noelle Photography

I'm ready to bloom. We are all waiting for that temperature to tip toe its way into the magical numbers that allows us to sound the alarms that it is SPRING! What it does for the flowers, the snow capped mountains, the rivers and streams, it also does for us. It lifts the burden of the cold and fills us with the vigor of warmth and sun filled rays. It makes us believe in the magic of coming alive, the chance to restore what has been settled, awaken or maybe even start anew. This Winter's hard gaze certainly tested our will to the point where we felt that we might break. Yet, here we are, stronger and certainly more equipped with some "how the hell to drive in snow/ice" skills. Am I right?!! ;) 

Spring gives way to not just natures bounty but to ours as well. I see the chance to reset not just my wardrobe ( yes please) but to recharge my mind towards the possibilities of what's to come. It's the chance to step out of the comfort zone and explore "I think I can" to "I can try." Nature's getting ready my dear friends, so are you and I. 

This top (which is actually a swimsuit cover up) brings out a strong dose of happy for me. Best of all, it was gifted by one of my favorite humans. She truly makes this world a better place because she is in it! This Spring, I'm swooning on the little details that make a simple style come alive. The vibrant hot pink tassels adds so much play, I'm not sure how I can wear this and not skip ;)  So this Spring, Mama will be bringing you styles filled with play, ease and the challenge of embracing ourselves just as we are. Let's bloom!! 

Top: Sundress  Shorts: Rag and Bone

Hello, from Laura

I've settled in for the evening and I'm so excited to sit down and write to you. It's been a busy few weeks and I'm reminding myself to pause and catch a breath. Writing to you is certainly a big part of that "breathing space". Our journey together has been filled with so many teachable moments. Where I am is not isolated from where you are. The next few months, Mama will be bringing you more style goodness that celebrates Spring (can I get a hallelujah on that please), tips to simplifying your wardrobe and celebrating changes that come into our lives. We are growing together and I must say it's quite lovely. 

I truly appreciate all of your kind and supportive messages. It means so much to hear your encouragement and I love seeing your input on style ideas you want me to share ( more please). I'm hear to support you! ( Insert major squeeze right here) We create magic when we climb together. Welcome, to the land of "be yourself". I'm thrilled you've joined. 

Top: JCrew     Jeans: Levi     Shoes: Target

All photos by Karen of Karen E Photos

What To Wear Now

a blissful stroll at Edwards Greenhouse

Sometimes all it takes is that special little piece to make an outfit come alive. This floral necklace from JCrew does just that. It adds that extra spark that makes me feel oh so good! That's the whole point my babes, getting dressed in styles that you look and *feel* good in. I like to wear these statement pieces with a simple look that's more casual. It makes the outfit a bit more playful. So those beautiful pieces that you currently have reserved for special occasion are about to be unleashed. Yep, you deserve to feel beautiful and special everyday. Why? Why the hell not!! 

You are always worthy.

Top: Forever21         necklace: JCrew      Denim: H&M    Shoes: Coach

All photos by the talented Karen E Photos 

 

We speak FUN: Laura Tully Fashion Event Recap!

I'm giving a major a high five and the biggest LOVE to everyone that came out for the 1st Laura Tully Fashion Event! It was such a delight to see each of you and get the opportunity to hug you out!! Thank you so much to Angela and her awesome team at Pottery Barn for the beautiful space and to Nicole from Westward Coffee for the treats and "damn good" coffee. I also want to give a huge "I am so grateful" HUG to Nancy Buffington of Boise Speakwell for guiding me along the last few months to prepare for this "playshop".  Nancy, thank you for working your brilliant magic on me and allowing me to speak to what I love. 

I'm always thinking of what I can do to make my clients lives easier when it comes to getting dressed. I wanted to deliver real style tips/ tools  that can be used to make choosing what we wear more deliberate and of course, fun! This event was made possible because of YOU! Thank you ALL for the amazing love and positive feedback!! 

Thank you to all the fabulous shops that took part in the event and helped to make the swag bags extra amazing! Paperie and Pen,  Shift boutique, Piece Unique, Ava Rae Boutique, Aveda and Blush by Jamie Rose. Click the link to learn more about these awesome spots or better yet, go visit! You'll thank me :)

Yep, you're fabulous swag bag goodness was custom designed by Be Collective. That's right even the bag that holds your swag can have some seriously cute style. 

Mama is filled with a fabulous list of ideas on how to make you look and feel your most amazing self.  So yes, I will definitely host another event! I will let you know as soon as the happy details are set! Enjoy the pictures courtesy of Karen E Photo, you all looked fabulous!

“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.” Brené Brown

Color Crush: Blush Tones

Soft blush tones makes me giddy to be a girl. There's something a bit whimsical about wearing tulle as an adult. It allows us to give in to the child like dreamer inside of us. Twirling, is highly encouraged ;)

                                                          Sweater: JCrew   Tulle Skirt: Francescas       

All photos: Karenephoto

Freezing? Get These 3 Tights

Okay my fine peeps! Let us dive right into the meat and potatoes of this blog post. The past few weeks we've been hit with a whopping dose of old man winter. I love the snow but it has now left me to covering all of my limbs and wearing boots that provide traction to the snow/ ice :) I have moments where I'm blissfuly daydreaming about a sunny meadow and twirling ;) or laying on a beach, wearing a gold bikini and sipping on something refreshing. Ok, let's focus! In the meantime, we are dealing with the reality of cold weather and fashion is not just my job, it's also my therapy. I decided to rock a skirt where my legs were no longer trapped in jeans or some thermal contraption. Plus, how awesome is this skirt?!! You and I both know that I subscribe to the mantra of  "freezing isn't cute". So let me share 3 of my favorite tights to have in your closet so that you too can have the option of showing some leg amidst winter gloom. 

Sweater and socks: JCrew  Skirt: Leith  Boots: Rag and Bone, Fancy Pants  Tights: Target

Get ready to add these goodness to your shopping cart. Black tights are a great staple and this little guy comes with a fleece lining inside ( say what?!). I know right, I'm hugging you too!! Next up, charcoal gray ribbed tights. This cool number from The Loft, pairs well with colored skirts and creates a soft transition, color wise,  from skirt to tights. Lastly, a navy pair, like these from Spanx. This particular pair has a gray undertone and can work well with many colors. It also has a built in shaper that makes everything feel safe and secure ;)

Hang in there my beauties, stay warm and I will see you next week! Muah!

All photos taken by the lovely Karen of Karen E Photos

How To Add Some Luxe To Your Daily Style

All this luxe, captured by Karen E Photo

I'm standing in line at Fred Meyer, waiting to purchase my grocery goods. The clerk looks at me and says "what you're wearing makes me happy, it's so...chic." Okay babes, let me explain the outfit my sweet clerk was admiring. Cashmere ivory sweater with black distressed denim, snow boots (cause it's snowmaggeden in boise ;), Camel colored wool trench coat with the...wait for it...my coppery red faux fur stole. It's a saturated yummy color that screams, luxe and I am all in. I want you to add some luxury to your everyday and yes, that includes the grocery store. It doesn't have to cost a fortune, it only needs to deliver that look and feel of a million bucks ;)

Adding that extra special something to your outfit can make your day oh so better. Especially when bad vibes tries to cramp your style. I layered this velvet tank over a fitted turtleneck and paired it with worn black denim. The velvet adds another layer of luxury and it makes me feel like I'm having my own party for the day. Who doesn't love a party?!! So what do I want you to do? Those fabulous earrings that sparkle like diamond, wear them with a simple oversized cozy sweater, leggings or skinnyjeans. That fancy blouse that you love and wear only to special events. Well it now has a date with your distressed jeans. That holiday sweater that makes you feel all glam, wear it with dark gray fitted pants or denim. Everyday, ummm that's right, I said it, everyday, you deserve the opportunity to put on what makes you feel and look good.  This is my sermon people and you guys know it!! 

THE GOODS

Faux fur stole- JCrew; mock Turtleneck- Forever 21; velvet tank- JCrew; denim- Mothers ( Fancy Pants); Shoes- Adrianna Papell

 

Sweater Therapy

Snuggled in between Soul/Funk and Reggae at The Record Exchange felt quite fitting :)

The current temperature situation in Boise, Idaho is 10 degrees. What that means my fine folks is that it's f-bomb cold! As I've discussed a few post back, there is nothing cute about shivering. So let's figure out how to add a little dose of goodness that helps to ease the impact of these frigid temperatures. I want something that says "hey girl, I've got your front, your back and I'm here to keep you cozy." ( this is said in an ultra smooth Barry White voice :) That leads me to coveting sweaters that do double duty: apply warmth to my body and of course, keeps my style game happy. 

This sweater tho!! This lace up detail is a a trend that I'm loving on because it offers a cool detail to an otherwise simple sweater.  That's right, my cozy sweater game just got upgraded and it feels so right. This goodness is by Endless Rose. It's a 100% wool but not itchy.  Here's a few other styles that will help us get through what we have affectionally call snowmageddon in Idaho (hehe) This cuteness from JCrew. I mean, stripes and warmth ( YES!!) and this v-neck cozy sweater from Topshop. Stay warm and safe my peeps and I'll see you next week for more fashion filled goodness. Let me know if you snag any of these styles and how you plan on rocking them. Hugging on YOU!!!

All photos by the talented Karen of Karenephoto

Wearing Courage

Captured by Jessica of Jleephotos in NYC                                             dress: For Love and Lemons

I'm perfectly fine with the unfinished parts of who I am. I'm working on it over here (said in my most pristine NYC accent :) It's 2017. All shiny and new, ready to gift us some teachable experiences. All of which adds up to complete these unfinished parts, in some way or another. Along this journey, I'm working on a few things. Reviving my unicorn spirit ( read blog post here) and nurturing courage. Yep, I want to treat courage like it owes me money. Stalk it relentlessly until it pays up...BIG TIME! 

For me courage feeds and fuels freedom. It creates a momentum that allows us to push beyond where we are, towards where we dare to be. I want it to infiltrate all that we do. How and who we love, the way we raise our children, our space in this world, our voice, what we choose to wear,  our passions, our purpose. These are filled and fulfilled through courage. Those unfinished parts aren't bad things. We're learning everyday, figuring out how to be better than the day before. Finding the courage to ask for what we seek; listen for the truth and throw flag on the bullshit; love hard because we know how great it can be to have it ( so good); fail knowing that we put our all in and try again; high five our victories and get ready for the next round. These courage filled experiences allows us to fill in the gaps, to write our own sentence. 

We are surrounded by plenty of things that try to tell us who and what we should be. Courage is recognizing that undeniable need to JUST be yourself...it's freedom. We know it the moment we walk away from the asshole who was treating us wrong ( we're ladies, ok), apply for that position that challenges us and show up because we're worthy.

Happy New Year my friends! Cheers to you and your relentless courage. 

“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.” Brené Brown